Again with moral dilemmas about the status of today’s majority of people. And I must say, some people, if not more, are lost in the world of exacerbated sexuality.
What am I talking about?
This month, I’ve received a lot of friend requests on social platforms, and I’ve been sort of excited about new topics and conversations with new people. But to my dismay, almost every friend request came with disrespect and non-solicited nudity from the other side. And that tickled my nerves a bit, but now I realize that it must be because too many people are lost.
If a guy sends a photo with nudity, they are labeled as discussing. If a girl does that, what can we call her without being misogynistic? (in the terms of today)
So, what happened?
I, as a reserved guy, with high standards and expectations, thought that it would never get to that, especially from the opposite sex. And then came the first few requests. I’ve talked to the girls, and they asked for a photo. In my innocence, I thought that they wanted an updated picture of me, but hell came loose when they sent the first picture, a sexualized photo with a request, to send a “dick pick”.
Not to say that I’ve deleted, from my end, the pictures, but now they sent another with full nudity. They sent the new photo after I said that the previous photo was disrespectful to me and that I didn’t want any photos with any kind of nudity.
One time, ok, but more than three, and I believe part of the world is lost
I’ve started to say, when a request for a picture is made, that any photo sexualized or with any nudity is disrespectful to me, and that, the talk before a photo, is completely disregarded from the female side. And that makes me think of the title of this post.
And now, I’m in a dilemma that is, did every girl or almost every girl have lost the sense of privacy, nudity, and respect?
Concerning this situation and others that may be arising, I’m discontent with the types of conversations, that start with a “Hi”, And four or more messages, and I’m bombarded with nudity, and disrespect when I only want to talk like a normal person. Is that too much to ask?
Reflection and inception
Reflecting on the subject brings other cards to the table, like, people being too open about what they do and what the culprits want. And the meaning seems kinda lost in the general picture. is that hard to ask for meaningful connections, without having a backtrace of too many partners (almost three or four a week), that being in many shapes and forms, in the city I live in, there’s the problem of the youth, with too many partners, too many drugs (I’m referring to legal ones), too many contraceptive drugs that alter the person organism forever, and so forth.
I was hoping that the inception of “I’m free and do what I want with my body”, didn’t apply as it applies today with too many things to account for. Maybe for the next partner I have, I must mandate the partner to do a clinical analysis of the diseases they have and if they are transmissible via some sort of action, I’m not going to specify more than this.
It’s all lost, or is there a way to fix things?
I believe that people have their rights, and they should use them, but with rights come responsibilities, and it appears to me that everyone is only taking the rights and ignoring the responsibilities they have.
If people become a bit more reserved, and wait, maybe there is a fix for everything I’ve talked about. I can say proudly that I use some of my rights to their full extent, but if things don’t change, very soon we will see almost all communities, cities and countries plagued with more diseases, even lower fertility rates, even more overdoses, etc… but until then, I can only hope that we, as a community of the world can see what is wrong and change the course of this boat without it being too late for that.
Some links that might give additional context to the last part:
