In the past month, I’ve been hiding some secrets. I’m in love and I might have an issue with it. Lines that should not cross…
Blurry lines
I’ve started dating remotely and I’m a bit confused about the relation between money and love. I think that if you have love, you don’t need money, and if you have money, hide it even from your family.
Of course I don’t have money, but this relationship I’m in is driving me crazy because I’m dating a high profile person from Taiwan and sometimes it appears that a line that shouldn’t be blurry, is blurry as hell. Money and love.
Not to say that I wished this issue was ignored, but it appears that no.
And time, time is passing by, and there is no going backwards…
Keanu Reeves knows what’s up….
As he said in an interview, are you a “lover or a fighter?”. And I’m both because as he said, “if you’re not a fighter what kind of love you have?”. And this response resonates within me as water goes through a waterfall in direction to the sea. The water fights to get to the sea, and I fight for the love I have.
I know that for families, or even singular persons, that have money it’s hard to trust a person that does not come with this baggage, but shouldn’t it be simpler to say that you didn’t have money? Other questions would be solved and lines wouldn’t get blurred out when this question between love, time and money shouldn’t even exist.
And if you are reading this my love, I hope you read to the end and truly understand the meaning of my questions.
Crossed out roads, lines without end, questions arise.
My roads are crossed for my internal map when questions that are solvable with ready money are treated as “killer features”.
I don’t want to think that I have to make a small fortune for things to happen, nor that I have to wait to see things unfold more naturally because of the money.
Lines are limits we expose to the recipient of a message when we want to have sure that, in regards to the recipient, he is a valid candidate for us. Of course that I respect the limits and you should too, but some limits, imposed on us sometimes are ridiculous to the point where you start to get lost, when you should be found.
For example, I wanna have my own home, made from my sweat and tears. I wanna have a supporting wife, even if she’s poor as hell, I really don’t care about the money. Money comes and goes, doesn’t go with you to the afterlife, it stays here for your children to fight about it. And I don’t want that for my future kids. Where did the line begin with love and a parallel line formed alongside the love line with the meaning of money or exacerbated wealth?
Trying to understand things
For me, I want my girl with me, even if she’s poor. I was, am and always will be loyal. For me loyalty is a line that I walk alongside, not cross it like many kids.
Is it hard to understand how much physical contact is more important than any amount of money thrown to the air?
Is the wasted time, thinking about money really that valuable or just a waste of time?
Relationships, many times die, in case of remote ones, due to the lack of physical contact, and I’m not referring to sex, I’m talking really about touch.
Understanding the above section, can be paramount to discover many things and to say if enough is enough.
Do you, if you’re having a remote relationship:
- Trust 100%
- Are loyal as hard as if the word written was engraved in your soul
- Are loving even when you’re stabbed as hard as someone cutting your heart out
- When you give your word, you are commanded by it and your honor as well
- Have the time and patience to wait for things to happen
To these affirmations that I’ve made, almost 70% of people would say no. To me they are reality, they mean to me that I’m a person full of integrity that wants things done the right way. I cannot live life without those meanings, even if they’re people that try to exploit them for their benefit.
Do those lines cross?
I’m having difficulty adapting to this situation, but my word, life, honor and trust, except on betrayal from the other side, are final.
It’s too much to ask for things to start to happen instead of focusing too much on the other aspects of life? For some people, it is, for others it isn’t, for the exception, I don’t know. I only know that I want my love with me. Not away. And to not forget, that time is ticking.
